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Mom ships son's ashes through UPS and . . .

Posted on 2/1/24 at 8:35 am
Posted by TigerDeacon
West Monroe, LA
Member since Sep 2003
29344 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 8:35 am
They got lost.

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Lee says she shipped Deontray’s boxed ashes along with some gifts from a UPS store in Hiram, Georgia, to her sister’s address in Connecticut in early January. The package was supposed to arrive by Jan. 10.
Posted by tss22h8
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Member since Jan 2007
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Posted on 2/1/24 at 8:38 am to
Did the box have one of these labels?

Posted by auggie
Opelika, Alabama
Member since Aug 2013
28141 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 8:38 am to
I'm sure the porch pirates gave Deontay a proper send off.
Posted by VetteGuy
Member since Feb 2008
28317 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 8:40 am to
I'll bet she didn't identify the package as remains.

It's actually a bit of a process to legally ship ashes.
Posted by Tuscaloosa
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46669 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 8:41 am to
Why the frick is a 15 year old overdosing on fentanyl?

frick.
Posted by Corinthians420
Iowa
Member since Jun 2022
6778 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 8:41 am to
When you ship something, you know there is a risk it will get lost.
Posted by TigerDeacon
West Monroe, LA
Member since Sep 2003
29344 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 8:43 am to
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Why the frick is a 15 year old overdosing on fentanyl?



Did you read this part?

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“I cremated him because I had not seen him in seven whole years. So, I cremated him, so that he could be right here with me, and we could travel together and do things together – and he ain’t here.”
Posted by Stealth Matrix
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Member since Aug 2019
7921 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 8:44 am to
quote:

When you ship something, you know there is a risk it will get lost.


Human remains just seem to me like one of those things you're better off hand delivering, just because of this risk.
Posted by Z Cavaricci
Member since Jun 2020
1040 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 8:48 am to
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So, I cremated him, so that he could be right here with me, and we could travel together and do things together


Tangenika, come-aw nah. You know that ain’t the troof.

Posted by Weekend Warrior79
Member since Aug 2014
16467 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 8:52 am to
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His remains are now unaccounted for after she tried shipping them to her sister, who was making a custom cremation urn.

So the plan was to send the ashes to her sister to make a custom urn, then the sister would return the urn with the ashes so they could
quote:

be right here with me, and we could travel together and do things together – and he ain’t here.”

Posted by Weekend Warrior79
Member since Aug 2014
16467 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 8:53 am to
I would suspect it didn't have the label because...
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However, UPS said in a statement it does not accept shipments of human remains, and the package’s contents were declared by the customer as “clothes.”
Posted by Shunface
Lafayette County Detention Center
Member since Jan 2013
4594 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 8:57 am to
Will never cease to amaze me that people will use cheap service for an important package.

Posted by Areddishfish
The Wild West
Member since Oct 2015
6284 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 9:15 am to
quote:

However, UPS said in a statement it does not accept shipments of human remains, and the package’s contents were declared by the customer as “clothes.”


maybe he was cremated in his favorite pair of J's
Posted by canyon
Member since Dec 2003
18483 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 9:17 am to
Did she use the Montrose CO funeral home for services?
Wasn’t Deontray anyways.
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
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Posted on 2/1/24 at 9:22 am to
quote:

I would suspect it didn't have the label because...

quote:However, UPS said in a statement it does not accept shipments of human remains, and the package’s contents were declared by the customer as “clothes.”


Yeah, I hate that for her but you can’t be mad at the process if you don’t follow the process.
This post was edited on 2/1/24 at 9:24 am
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124558 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 9:27 am to
She probably tried to save money by not properly declaring and labeling it and...well.


Guess Deontray is ashy now
Posted by TigerDeacon
West Monroe, LA
Member since Sep 2003
29344 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 9:36 am to
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So the plan was to send the ashes to her sister to make a custom urn, then the sister would return the urn with the ashes


Why not just ship the urn to Georgia empty and then she could put the ashes in herself???

I went to a funeral last year where the funeral home took care of the cremation and sold an urn to the family, but then someone from the family had to actually put the ashes from the crematorium's package into the urn. Funeral home staff wouldn't do it.
This post was edited on 2/1/24 at 9:37 am
Posted by CleverUserName
Member since Oct 2016
12698 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 9:37 am to
As a former UPS employee back in college…. Yea….. don’t ship anything you hold dear and that is irreplaceable via ANY parcel shipping service.

If people only knew.
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
11926 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 9:40 am to
I am pretty sure it is illegal to ship remains by any method other than the USPS. I had to do it last year.
Posted by hob
Member since Dec 2017
2132 posts
Posted on 2/1/24 at 9:59 am to
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I'm sure the porch pirates gave Deontay a proper send off.


I know someone who had their ex-husband's ashes in a cardboard box on a shelf in the closet. Her house got robbed and the box was taken.

A few weeks later the box was on the front porch when she got home from work. Thieves didn't want that bad juju on them. Knowing the ex-husband I bet he had fun going on the joy ride.


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