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How often do you see your siblings?

Posted on 2/12/21 at 7:58 pm
Posted by Kujo
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Posted on 2/12/21 at 7:58 pm
The family dynamic has changed over the years with people going away for college and taking jobs out of state. How much effort do you put into seeing siblings? How often do you talk on the phone? Do you call your nieces and nephews on their birthdays and send gifts?

Posted by dupergreenie
Member since May 2014
5358 posts
Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:01 pm to
Sister....haven't seen in over 30 years.... brother.... usually on holidays or when his kids have something that i can go to....he will drunk text me about how much he wishes we were closer...but thats maybe twice a year....
This post was edited on 2/12/21 at 8:02 pm
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Member since Feb 2018
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Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:01 pm to
I see my younger sister about 4-5 times per year. Older sister once every year or two. Almost never talk on the phone to either.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:01 pm to
Couple times a month maybe. Just depends on what's going on
Posted by TDsngumbo
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Member since Oct 2011
41773 posts
Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:02 pm to
My siblings and I are pretty close. We see each other about once or twice a month and usually talk on the phone and/or text every couple days or so.
Posted by Traveler
I'm not late-I'm early for tomorrow
Member since Sep 2003
24295 posts
Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:03 pm to
Sadly, just when someone in the family passes away. We are all spread apart across the country now.
Posted by SCLibertarian
Conway, South Carolina
Member since Aug 2013
36289 posts
Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:03 pm to
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Sister....haven't seen in over 30 years

That's crazy. Drugs?
Posted by mistaken4193
Member since Jan 2017
25613 posts
Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:04 pm to
My Oldest Little Sister lives in Virginia so maybe once every year or 2.

My Youngest Little Sister lives on the same street as me and we live on the same street as our parents so Almost every day with her
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:04 pm to
Seldom
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
26998 posts
Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:05 pm to
My brother and sister are much younger than me and have drama filled lives with lots of problems.

Rarely see or talk to either. Sister maybe once a year on a holiday. Brother maybe once every two years. Both just a very brief visit when I do see them.
Posted by Sus-Scrofa
Member since Feb 2013
8190 posts
Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:05 pm to
Two or three times a year. My brothers and sister all never left our hometown, so they see each other multiple times a week.

My mom is one of eight ranging from 65 to 85 and I bet she talks to all of them at least a few times a month. I figure as long as no one goes off the deep-end, siblings probably make more of an effort to stay in touch more when they become seniors.
This post was edited on 2/12/21 at 8:06 pm
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114086 posts
Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:06 pm to
Last month I saw my siblings 3.5 times.
Posted by LSU Coyote
Member since Sep 2007
53390 posts
Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:07 pm to
One is in the Virgin Isles, so once every 2yrs and the other lives 2hrs away, so we see her about once a month.

We all talk every day, we are very close.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42682 posts
Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:18 pm to
We text everyday - some days it’s all day.

My sister doesn’t have any kids, and my brother only has one - my nephew asks if he can come over to play with the cousins - sooo even my kids and he are close

On the other hand - my husband only talks to one of his sisters, but not very often. He can’t stand the other ones. He tried to ‘fix’ that over the years but it was futile.
Posted by Twenty 49
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2014
18843 posts
Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:20 pm to
I like my brother, but we only see each other maybe 3 times a year pre-covid. Haven’t seen him since about Christmas 2019. We’re not the kind to call or text.

Sister is literally insane. Can’t recall the last time I saw her. Probably more than 5 years ago.
Posted by Roman Candle Tag
Member since Mar 2016
1452 posts
Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:21 pm to
Actual contact? every 5 years or so, on average.

Phone contact? every 2.5 years or so, on average.

Im a shitty brother.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81259 posts
Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:24 pm to
quote:

How often do you see your siblings?


Not very often. Though he got married last weekend and I was a bridesmaid, so saw him all weekend. But usually not much.

quote:

How much effort do you put into seeing siblings?


He and his wife are homebodies -- which is great -- but they live 45 minutes away in the deep part of Prairieville. I just don't get out there for any reason, and I also prefer not to go over and then drink and drive.

quote:

How often do you talk on the phone?


Only if one of us wants to bitch about something our parents did, which is rare.

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Do you call your nieces and nephews on their birthdays and send gifts?



I don't have them yet.
Posted by ItNeverRains
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Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:25 pm to
Haven’t seen any of them in over a year. They all live 10 minutes away from each other in Pville as well as my folks. We keep in touch, I’m the only one with young kiddos and between school, sports, and this covid BS it’s just been hard to get down there.
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
Member since Jan 2007
156001 posts
Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:26 pm to
Once a year if im lucky


Supposed to see my sis and 2 y/o niece next month. :hearteyesemoji:
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 2/12/21 at 8:28 pm to
quote:

How much effort do you put into seeing siblings? How often do you talk on the phone? Do you call your nieces and nephews on their birthdays and send gifts?



Haven’t talked to one sister in over 30’years- except
for a brief encounter at dad’s funeral. Haven’t spoken to the other sister since The funeral 3 years ago. Talk to my brother as needed- about every 3 or 4 months.

Text/call my nephews/niece as often as I can. Never miss a birthday or Christmas when it comes to them. Good/great kids and very proud of them.
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