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Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:41 am
Posted by VooDude
Member since Aug 2017
1092 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:41 am
Any vets find this patronizing when people say this to you? At the surface thinking about it, it would piss me off.

UPDATED OPINION: Not patronizing, and I just want to thank you all for your service here today.
This post was edited on 2/10/24 at 10:28 pm
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136858 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:42 am to
I swear, some of y'all get offended by anything.
Posted by TIGRLEE
Northeast Louisiana
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:42 am to
That’s bc you’re stupid.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
28711 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:42 am to
No I know they mean well. I just say thanks and move on.
Posted by drake20
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2005
13123 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:43 am to
Get pissed at people trying to show respect? Seems dumb
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
119621 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:45 am to
Why?
Posted by tadman
Member since Jun 2020
3858 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:45 am to
Are you just making threads based on Curb Your Enthusiasm episodes now?

Posted by Billy Blanks
Member since Dec 2021
3819 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:46 am to
It depends on the context of the situation.
Posted by Scuttle But
Member since Nov 2023
1301 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:46 am to
quote:

Any vets find this patronizing when people say this to you? At the surface thinking about it, it would piss me off.


You're a fricking weirdo
Posted by Cajun Tifoso
Lafayette, LA
Member since Sep 2010
2565 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:47 am to
I may well be in the minority among vets, but for some reason, I find it annoying.

Semper Fi my fellow jarheads!!
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
72105 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:49 am to
No.

Just say, thank you for your words and support.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124659 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:49 am to
I mean, don't know why the waitress would take offense
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
36215 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:51 am to
I’ve said this to vets for 20+ years and not one time did they not look at me, genuinely smile, and say thank you.
Posted by cenlaconvertedsouth
Member since May 2020
284 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:51 am to
Patronizing? No, people don't say that because they feel superior to vets. A few of those saying thanks may feel obligated and not mean it, but not in a patronizing way. Do some vets not like getting all of the attention that sometimes comes with the territory of being a vet and prefer to not receive acknowledgement, absolutely. Maybe that's what you are asking...
This post was edited on 2/10/24 at 7:55 am
Posted by Shanegolang
Denham Springs, La
Member since Sep 2015
3562 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:52 am to
My vet doesn't seem to mind. He takes really good care of my dog.
Posted by Big Gorilla
Bossier City
Member since Oct 2020
5463 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:56 am to
After serving 25 years I have heard this countless times. I always responded “it has been an honor to serve and thank you for your support”.

When complete strangers thank you for something they don’t fully understand it’s genuine. They are just grateful they live in the greatest country on earth and our military is a big reason for that.
Posted by toratiger
susukino
Member since Aug 2008
2610 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:58 am to
Ask a Viet Nam Vet. We did not receive any support upon our return. We were scorned ar best.
This post was edited on 2/10/24 at 8:02 am
Posted by cubsfan5150
Member since Nov 2007
15802 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 7:58 am to
No I don’t, but it is uncomfortable.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
65974 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 8:08 am to

I didn't serve but grew up in an Era when a great deal of men my father's age did as Boomers. I can't recall anyone saying it to my dad and a couple of uncles who did serve (or countless other men in the community). It was appreciated but not always verbalized if that makes sense.

I kind of understand 6our point, OP, though. Not to a point it would piss me off, but post-9/11, it has become an almost auto-response much like the ever present and often empty phrase of Thoughts and Prayers in a way. Just my impression.
Posted by PeteRose
Hall of Fame
Member since Aug 2014
16949 posts
Posted on 2/10/24 at 8:10 am to
I know two guys who are brothers who served. One in the army(now an attorney), the other navy(retired). They hold me they hate hearing that from random people.
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