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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:30 pm to
Posted by fillmoregandt
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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:30 pm to
Sounds like you get a six month vacation
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:31 pm to
Let her go. It's her career. I'd leave for six months in a heartbeat for my career. In fact, I've done it before
Posted by Golfer
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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:31 pm to
Oh for fricks sake. Grow up then. She takes the assignment and yall get married 6-8 months after she gets back.

Posted by Breesus
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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:32 pm to
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haven't set a date.
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not wedding-obsessed
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engaged for a month
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mid-30s


So she's a motivated sharp career first, personal life second kid of gal? Or has she been married before?

Mid30s and putting off the wedding she's one of the two, right?

6 months is a long time.
This post was edited on 8/11/15 at 9:35 pm
Posted by Hiawatha
Member since Jul 2015
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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:33 pm to
Not married before.
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:34 pm to
She is going to come back with some sort of STD. Don't roll the dice, brah. She can't always get the sand out of that vag.
Posted by Golfer
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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:35 pm to
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6 months is a long time.


LOL no.
Posted by Walt OReilly
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Member since Oct 2005
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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:36 pm to
If you want to hang our while is gone let me know

I'm always looking for a new friend
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:37 pm to
Mid 30's huh?

Not interested in getting married?

Still traveling around the world?


Her clock is ticking and so is yours. You don't wanna still be paying for college in your 60's do you?
Posted by Breesus
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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:38 pm to
So she's career driven.

She has to go then or she'll resent you or leave you.

There's no reason to break up with her. Tell her you love her and to support her. Let her go and then let life play out.

Posted by winston318
Oklahoma City,OK
Member since Sep 2009
3175 posts
Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:38 pm to
She's done with you. Those guys over there are rich, and they love American women. Good luck with that.
Posted by 13SaintTiger
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Member since Sep 2011
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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:39 pm to
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6 months is a long time.


You sound like one of those psychotic husbands who keeps his wife locked in the closet for fear of picking up a phone call from a male telemarketer.
Posted by Breesus
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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:39 pm to
You have a wife, right?

If tomorrow she left for 6 months and you didn't see her you wouldn't think that was a long time?
Posted by Breesus
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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:41 pm to
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You sound like one of those psychotic husbands who keeps his wife locked in the closet for fear of picking up a phone call from a male telemarketer.


I just love my fiancé. Don't think it's that wierd. If I suddenly couldn't see her for 6 months that would suck. And feel like a long time.

Also

I don't need to lock her in a closet. She knows better than to answer the phone.
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:41 pm to
Well considering she went to graduate school 750 miles away while we were married, no.

And what's preventing him from going over there 1-3 times during the stint? Or meeting up for a long weekend somewhere in Europe?
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:42 pm to
The OP isn't married to this woman. She wants to roll out for 6 months.

If he didn't have doubts he wouldn't have started the thread.

Apparently something is making him have second thoughts. I'd say she's probably cheated on him and he doesn't trust her and that's why he's reluctant.
Posted by 13SaintTiger
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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:43 pm to
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And what's preventing him from going over there 1-3 times during the stint? Or meeting up for a long weekend somewhere in Europe?



Chalk it up to people with different backgrounds. Some folks are just wired to think more than 2 days apart of 50+ miles will kill a relationship.
Posted by Breesus
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Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:45 pm to
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Well considering she went to graduate school 750 miles away while we were married, no.


You just didn't give a frick?
She left and you were like whatever, ho, see you whenever or whatever. Bye.

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And what's preventing him from going over there 1-3 times during the stint?

Going to a foreign country 3 times in 6 is expensive and time consuming and he'd have to take off work and shite.
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:48 pm to
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You just didn't give a frick? She left and you were like whatever, ho, see you whenever or whatever. Bye.


Yea. Exactly like that.

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Going to a foreign country 3 times in 6 is expensive and time consuming and he'd have to take off work and shite.


She already makes well into 6-figures and is getting an assignment in Dubai. I'm going to say they can spring for a few flights. Hell, some employers will even cover his travel at least once.
This post was edited on 8/11/15 at 9:49 pm
Posted by TigersOfGeauxld
Just across the water...
Member since Aug 2009
25057 posts
Posted on 8/11/15 at 9:49 pm to
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Get the ring back before she leaves.
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