re: If you saw or knew of a good friend’s wife was cheating on him,

Yep I did it. It broke him and I told her she was whore that dude would have given you the shirt of his back. That frickin bitch

I'll probably be down voted for this but I have two stories.

My wife was a music/band teacher so I was exposed to a lot of parents. This one couple was helicopter parents, always hovering around their kid, even to the point of wanting him to room with them on overnight band trips. The husband had a reputation of running around behind his wife's back. One day I went into the credit union and there he was talking with a teller at a window. Since I would be next in line I went over and stood behind him awaiting my turn. They apparently were done with business because the teller motioned him aside and me forward. While waiting on me they continued their conversation and he was obviously hitting on her. Well, shame on me but I knew his wife was sick so I jumped in with a 'How's your wife doing? I heard she was sick. ' It was like a bucket of cold water.

The other took place at work. One of our department managers was rumored to be having an affair with her maintenance supervisor. Her husband (A really nice guy) also worked there, but in a different building. By the nature of our functions, ahe and I butted heads daily. Anyhow, when I heard the rumors I went to her, closed the door, and told her what I heard. I told her I didn't know if it was true and I didn't know how to fix it, but didn't want her husband to hear it. She listened, said thanks, and turned back to her computer. I left and then two days later she came up to me in a hallway and told me she trusted me to do whatever needed done. Far cry from what had become our normal interactions.
How did she fix it? Dunno but a couple of weeks later she accepted a similar position in the company a state away. My boss (same level and shared the same boss as her) had tried to get her relieved many times and was taken by surprise when she left. I never told him how it might have happened.

They usually already know

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Guess we can never be dead hooker in the trunk friends.

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I might make an exception for the most mysterious man on tOT.

Is it really a question?

Maybe it’s been said as I didnt read every page. Follow the Golden rule in all things. “Do unto others as you’d have them do unto you”. If you’d want him to tell you then tell him. If you wouldn’t then don’t. Fuq all this 24 hr shite, that gives her time to make sure she buries you when you tell. I wouldn’t tell but put him in the situation to find out maybe.

My name is Les,
I won’t get in that mess.

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If you saw or knew of a good friend’s wife was cheating on him

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Tell us what you saw, baw.

Am I Vince Vaughan ?

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Yes, and TBQH if my buddy was cheating on his wife I would tell her

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Man card revoked. GTFO here