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re: If you saw or knew of a good friend’s wife was cheating on him,

Posted on 8/1/24 at 5:43 pm to
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
48631 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 5:43 pm to
quote:

So what if you just found out your husband had a one night stand 5 years ago?
what would it matter now?
Posted by ole man
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2007
12837 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 5:44 pm to
Yep I did it. It broke him and I told her she was whore that dude would have given you the shirt of his back. That frickin bitch
Posted by Ponchy Tiger
Ponchatoula
Member since Aug 2004
46358 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 5:50 pm to
I would put him in a situation where he would find out.
Posted by Kmit58
Member since Dec 2020
103 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 5:58 pm to
I'll probably be down voted for this but I have two stories.

My wife was a music/band teacher so I was exposed to a lot of parents. This one couple was helicopter parents, always hovering around their kid, even to the point of wanting him to room with them on overnight band trips. The husband had a reputation of running around behind his wife's back. One day I went into the credit union and there he was talking with a teller at a window. Since I would be next in line I went over and stood behind him awaiting my turn. They apparently were done with business because the teller motioned him aside and me forward. While waiting on me they continued their conversation and he was obviously hitting on her. Well, shame on me but I knew his wife was sick so I jumped in with a 'How's your wife doing? I heard she was sick. ' It was like a bucket of cold water.

The other took place at work. One of our department managers was rumored to be having an affair with her maintenance supervisor. Her husband (A really nice guy) also worked there, but in a different building. By the nature of our functions, ahe and I butted heads daily. Anyhow, when I heard the rumors I went to her, closed the door, and told her what I heard. I told her I didn't know if it was true and I didn't know how to fix it, but didn't want her husband to hear it. She listened, said thanks, and turned back to her computer. I left and then two days later she came up to me in a hallway and told me she trusted me to do whatever needed done. Far cry from what had become our normal interactions.
How did she fix it? Dunno but a couple of weeks later she accepted a similar position in the company a state away. My boss (same level and shared the same boss as her) had tried to get her relieved many times and was taken by surprise when she left. I never told him how it might have happened.
Posted by PowerTool
The dark side of the road
Member since Dec 2009
21746 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 6:05 pm to
Yep.

Lots of us tried to tell him, but some folks will see what they want to see if it looks easier than confrontation.
Posted by makersmark1
earth
Member since Oct 2011
17212 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 6:05 pm to
They usually already know
Posted by thejuiceisloose
Member since Nov 2018
4935 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 6:05 pm to
quote:

Would you tell him?

Just curious about how y’all feel about that.


What if I'm the one she's cheating on him with?

(Kidding)
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
101692 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 6:45 pm to
quote:

Guess we can never be dead hooker in the trunk friends.


I might make an exception for the most mysterious man on tOT.
Posted by Jor Jor The Dinosaur
Chicago, IL
Member since Nov 2014
6809 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 6:47 pm to
Plot twist: OP is the Jody in this scenario
Posted by VetteGuy
Member since Feb 2008
30691 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 6:47 pm to
Is it really a question?

Posted by Jaydeaux
Covington
Member since May 2005
18994 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 6:59 pm to
Maybe it’s been said as I didnt read every page. Follow the Golden rule in all things. “Do unto others as you’d have them do unto you”. If you’d want him to tell you then tell him. If you wouldn’t then don’t. Fuq all this 24 hr shite, that gives her time to make sure she buries you when you tell. I wouldn’t tell but put him in the situation to find out maybe.
Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
30669 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 7:09 pm to
quote:

buddy being cheated on- yes telling him

buddy doing the cheating- my lips is shut


I would agree.
Posted by XenScott
Pensacola
Member since Oct 2016
3356 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 7:18 pm to
My name is Les,
I won’t get in that mess.
Posted by Stealth Matrix
29°59'55.98"N 90°05'21.85"W
Member since Aug 2019
8743 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 7:20 pm to
I was in this situation once. I told him, he didn't believe me. He had to find out himself, almost a year later.
Posted by White Bear
Yonnygo
Member since Jul 2014
15205 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 7:42 pm to
quote:

If you saw or knew of a good friend’s wife was cheating on him
Tell us what you saw, baw.
Posted by Hondo Blacksheep
Member since Jul 2022
2281 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 7:45 pm to
I don't see how that's any of our business.

People know when their s/o is stepping out. I'd mind my own.
Posted by ShermanTxTiger
Broussard, La
Member since Oct 2007
11029 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 7:46 pm to
Am I Vince Vaughan ?
Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
1588 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 7:47 pm to
Hell yeah.
He needs to get a PI and get pics to help with the divorce.

Ain't no ho gonna make a fool out of a good friend of mine and take half his stuff.


Posted by Townedrunkard
Member since Jan 2019
9956 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:13 pm to
quote:

Yes, and TBQH if my buddy was cheating on his wife I would tell her


Man card revoked. GTFO here
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
19217 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:35 pm to
quote:

what would it matter now?


On one hand, you’re right. But on the other, he broke a promise to you and kept the secret.

How many such instances would it take for it to matter? One per year? Two? Three?
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