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re: Guys. How do you feel you measure up to your dad as a man

Posted on 4/11/19 at 5:28 pm to
Posted by Wolfhound45
Hanging with Chicken in Lurkistan
Member since Nov 2009
120000 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 5:28 pm to
Walked out on his wife and four children, leaving them with a house mortgaged to the hilt.

I think I got this one.
Posted by Mizz-SEC
Inbred Huntin' In The SEC
Member since Jun 2013
19263 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 5:32 pm to

Better in some areas, worse in others.

When he was at the top of his game he'd blow me away, but he mailed it in after 40 and became a shell of his former self. Loved him with all my soul though.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
261923 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 5:37 pm to
Decently. We both had strengths and faults.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63587 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 5:38 pm to
No contest.
Posted by MWP
Kingwood, TX via Monroe, LA
Member since Jul 2013
10489 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 5:51 pm to
quote:

Dad served in WWII, Korea and Vietnam


Wow. What branch?
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
27507 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 5:56 pm to
I am 100x the man he can ever hope to be.

I am a 1000th the man my grandfather was.
Posted by DelaTiger
Maurepas
Member since Jul 2015
42 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 6:02 pm to
My mom, my brothers and I have always come first and I have never doubted that once in 44 years. Hardest working man I’ve ever known. While raising four sons, I can’t think of even one nice thing he ever did for himself. Didn’t get his first new truck until he retired and we were on our own, but my brothers and I had new vehicles in high school, which makes me nauseous to think about. Even though all four of his sons have very successful careers, we still have to sneak away to ask a waiter to add his and my mom’s meal to our bill lol. Can’t think of one thing I’d change about him.
Posted by CaptSpaulding
Member since Feb 2012
6529 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 6:02 pm to
My paw can whoop anybody east of the Mississippi.

And I can whoop my paw.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
79042 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 6:04 pm to
My Dad was more stoic, more honest, more mechanically-inclined, harder- working and more materialistic. I’m more loyal, more social, more family-oriented, more generous and less ambitious. If you could combine us we’d be an ok dude. On our own, well...
Posted by TizzyT4theUofA
This side of eternity
Member since Jun 2016
10083 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 6:07 pm to
I don’t know how I measure up to him as a man but I know I wouldn’t be where I am without his sacrifice to put my brothers and I in a position to succeed. He sacrificed all of his hopes, and dreams for us to make it. I can never repay him for what he’s done for me. I’m truly honored and blessed to have him as my dad!
This post was edited on 4/11/19 at 6:09 pm
Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
21514 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 6:07 pm to
Do not measure any where close to my dad.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48890 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 6:08 pm to
quote:

and more materialistic

My dad is reasonably financially well off but doesn't care much for material possessions at all. My wife said that he dresses like a homeless man now at 70

He's single and when I go to his condo he has two plates, glasses spoons etc. He told me he likes to be able to pack everything up in an hour and roll out.
Posted by touchdownjeebus
Member since Sep 2010
24842 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 6:09 pm to
I’m a far better man than my father in virtually every facet measurable.
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
23686 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 6:09 pm to
quote:



Wow. What branch?


Marines.
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
22507 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 6:10 pm to
quote:

- Unflinching innate sense of right and wrong. Little to no moral gray area
- Refused to discuss politics or religion with anyone. Ever
- Never heard him complain
- Internal alarm clock got him up at 4:30-5 every morning. 7 days a week
- Never once saw him drunk in my lifetime
- Took care of my grandparents like a saint when they got older
- Army reserves for 20 yrs, volunteer FD for 25, on top of tending to 3000 acres of farm


While he may have been an incredible guy, a lot of this is just hero worship through the eyes of a child. Never discussed politics? I'm sure he had conversations his child wasn't privy to. He wasn't as good as you think and you aren't as bad as you think.
Posted by Duffnshank
Member since Jan 2019
661 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 6:12 pm to
quote:

My dad is the greatest man I’ve ever known. I do not measure up to him but man I try. If I can get close, I know I’ll be a good man, great father and husband. My goal is to try and get close because I know I’ll never surpass him in my eyes


This was hard for me to accept as well, but I have no doubt I can’t be the man my father is. Depressing at times actually
This post was edited on 4/11/19 at 6:15 pm
Posted by TizzyT4theUofA
This side of eternity
Member since Jun 2016
10083 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 6:13 pm to
quote:

I have a way hotter wife.


This post was edited on 4/11/19 at 6:15 pm
Posted by poppa1254
Moody, AL
Member since Jan 2019
439 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 6:15 pm to
Dad died in 1977. I miss him every single day.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35528 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 6:16 pm to
quote:

He told me he likes to be able to pack everything up in an hour and roll out.
I would love to be able to do this.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
65974 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 6:16 pm to

I don't think i do measure up completely to Daddy, but I am closer to measuring up to him than he and my aunts/uncles measure up to their father/my grandfather. Pop was a true gentleman in SWArky and SEOkie. He died at 92 and truly left a mark I can't ever dream of doing. I'll die an unknown comparatively.
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