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re: Kids and 30A

Posted on 4/4/24 at 9:52 am to
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
31618 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 9:52 am to
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I think you are onto something. My granfather had a college degree and a white collar job and he never took his kids anywhere like Florida when they were under 15 years old.

I also have a number of relatives who died over the last 20 years with hundreds of thousands to 7 figures in the bank even though they never had high paying jobs. Most of them were super frugal and didn't do hardly any real traveling till after age 65.

Now a days I know people going to San Destin and just charging it to the card.



#1 - why does this board care so much how other people spend their money

#2 - waiting to travel until you are over 65 is fricking stupid

#3 - your gradnfather sounds like someone that didnt want to show his kids the world. not something to brag about. Sure he was a great guy but bragging about not taking your kids on vacation is worse than bragging about taking them. and since when did it become a good thing to be so broke you cant take a vacation to florida. jesus

#4 - why the frick would i want to work my whole life and die with 7 figures in the bank? sounds like a waste. could have spent a lot of that on taking your kids and grand kids to the beach all those years and enjoying the time and memories together
Posted by GeauxTigers123
Member since Feb 2007
1393 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 9:56 am to
Because if everyone spends all their money and doesn’t save any by trying to keep up with the joneses, then the government will do dumb stuff (like more handouts and welfare). That in turns hurts those who save.

My point is that used to people were very frugal and middle class or blue collar people saved a ton. Now everyone spends.
Posted by Krane
Member since Oct 2017
999 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 9:57 am to
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why does this board care so much how other people spend their money

What else are we supposed to argue about
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79414 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 9:57 am to
#1 - Nobody is objecting to traveling with your kids or showing them more experiences than we had as children

#2 - You missed the context of the conversation, which stems from overcrowding of 30A and the reality that we live in a culture of excess where everything is bigger and more expensive and people are excessively dedicated to chasing material things/experiences.

#3 - A ton of the families living in the manner we're talking about that aren't killing themselves financially to do it are probably doing so because grandpa didn't do them and left a nest egg for the family
Posted by Dragula
Laguna Seca
Member since Jun 2020
4994 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:13 am to
I have no issue with the 30A, I just strongly disagree from many who vacation there that it's the pinnacle of beaches in the world. One thing for certain, they love to accounce their 30A visit with decals on the rear of their car.

I question if those people ever traveled out of the Gulf South let alone the world.

To each their own.
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79414 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:21 am to
I just don't hear many people say that. The beaches are very high quality, however.

For a traditional family beach trip, it's really hard to find a rival for 30A, IMO. Which is why both strivers and genuinely affluent people from inside and outside the region flock to it.

And candidly if anyone has one I'd genuinely like to know about it.
Posted by Dragula
Laguna Seca
Member since Jun 2020
4994 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:27 am to
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I just don't hear many people say that. The beaches are very high quality, however.

For a traditional family beach trip, it's really hard to find a rival for 30A, IMO. Which is why both strivers and genuinely affluent people from inside and outside the region flock to it.

And candidly if anyone has one I'd genuinely like to know about it.




It's a very nice beach on the Gulf Coast. I think the attraction is the short flight from anywhere in the US, they get a feeling of exclusivity and its cheaper to fly to/from than exotic locations.
This post was edited on 4/4/24 at 10:29 am
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79414 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:33 am to
It's definitely convenient. I'm not sure about the cost. My law partner is in Exuma this week with his boys and told me it should end up less expensive than a trip involving a Watercolor or Rosemary house this week.

Which of course relates back to the related conversation about excess. 30A was a traditionally upper-middle class family vacation spot and you have suburban types easily dropping 10k on a car beach trip. It's just a lot different than my childhood experience (and much of my childhood was spent on 30A).
Posted by plazadweller
South Georgia
Member since Jul 2011
11460 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:33 am to
Avoid Seaside and you’re fine. They shut the beach down this week at that public beach access. It did look like a zoo but still pales in comparison to the destruction my age group and older did in PC years ago
This post was edited on 4/4/24 at 10:34 am
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79414 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:34 am to
La Vela for life
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
31618 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:37 am to
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Because if everyone spends all their money and doesn’t save any by trying to keep up with the joneses, then the government will do dumb stuff (like more handouts and welfare). That in turns hurts those who save.


what does people spending their money have to do with gov handouts?

quote:

My point is that used to people were very frugal and middle class or blue collar people saved a ton. Now everyone spends.


no everyone doesnt but its retarded to save and save and save just to die. thats dumb AF.

you get 1 life, enjoy it.
Posted by plazadweller
South Georgia
Member since Jul 2011
11460 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:38 am to
In its hey day it was the “this ain’t PCB” which resonated to people who wanted to go to the beach and not deal with unruly kids and drunks. That still holds true except for weeks like this one where the most populated county in the SE gets out for spring break.
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
31618 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:39 am to
quote:

You missed the context of the conversation, which stems from overcrowding of 30A and the reality that we live in a culture of excess where everything is bigger and more expensive and people are excessively dedicated to chasing material things/experiences.


maybe its just me, but bringing your kid to 30a isnt a culture of excess

quote:

#3 - A ton of the families living in the manner we're talking about that aren't killing themselves financially to do it are probably doing so because grandpa didn't do them and left a nest egg for the family


you are 100% right but i try not to concern myself with the way others spend their money. one of those things that is out of my control.
Posted by plazadweller
South Georgia
Member since Jul 2011
11460 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:40 am to
A place these youts will never experience
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55947 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:41 am to
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I question if those people ever traveled out of the Gulf South let alone the world.

i know two families who have tens to hundreds of millions of dollars with places on 30a
This post was edited on 4/4/24 at 11:07 am
Posted by Chucktown_Badger
The banks of the Ashley River
Member since May 2013
31341 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:43 am to
What seems to have changed is that in the past spring break was almost exclusively a college-aged kid thing. But it feels like now there are just as many high school-aged kids going away to "party" for spring break. If I was a college kid on spring break and ran into a bunch of high schoolers I'd be pissed.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
32844 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:44 am to
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Because if everyone spends all their money and doesn’t save any by trying to keep up with the joneses

How do you know how much money these people make? Or, if they have family money? Stop trying to count other people's money, and worry about your own. Maybe these people spend money and still save money
Posted by Ray Ray Rodman
Florida
Member since Mar 2005
17654 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:45 am to
Not close to how it is now.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55947 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:46 am to
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Will never get this forum’s fascination with this place and calling it “30A” as if they’ve unlocked some secret society level of cool

what are you supposed to call it
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
32844 posts
Posted on 4/4/24 at 10:48 am to
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I have no issue with the 30A, I just strongly disagree from many who vacation there that it's the pinnacle of beaches in the world. One thing for certain, they love to accounce their 30A visit with decals on the rear of their car.

I question if those people ever traveled out of the Gulf South let alone the world.

To each their own.

It's a great place to have a family getaway for a long weekend. It would never be my only vacation of the year or something like that though. I've been to beaches all over the country, from Hawaii, California, Miami, etc... The sand and water quality in 30A is just as good, if not better than those. I also don't have a 30A sticker on my vehicle.
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