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re: How Many of You Make Enough to "Live Comfortably "?

Posted on 4/20/24 at 6:30 pm to
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
14164 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 6:30 pm to
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That’s when you know you’ve officially given up on life


Not really. Last week I bought a pair of Hurley shorts and a Callaway golf shirt there. They sell other brands than Member's Mark.....although I'm not too proud to wear MM socks and undershirts.
Posted by Picayuner
Member since Dec 2016
3495 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 6:30 pm to
I live comfortably but could live a lot more comfortable if my wife would SLOW DOWN with the spending It never ends
Posted by Warfarer
Dothan, AL
Member since May 2010
12134 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 6:32 pm to
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And it's certainly not a struggle if you're able to put away that much. It takes most people several years to achieve that.



You know what I mean on the struggle there though. I don't want to mess with the house money but I still want to spend like I am keeping it available. I don't have a lot laying around right now until I can get the house built and under a mortgage.

Even then, the 50/30/20 rule is a rough metric these days. If you make 104k a year, bringing home roughly 1400ish a week or 6k a month. the 50/30/20 rule would hit you as follows:

50 on needs:
- 1500-2k mortgage
- 750 car payment
- 125 a month for car insurance
- 500 a month on groceries
- without insurance as consideration, you are out of your 50% now and that is pretty conservative numbers these days. this means that you make up for it on the 30% wants or the 20% saving.

- 20% savings looks around1200 a month into savings which would take you nearly a year to save up a 3 or 4 month emergency fund.

I would think it would be tough to live on 80k a year by yourself now, even in cheaper rural areas.
Posted by Tvilletiger
PVB
Member since Oct 2015
5051 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 6:32 pm to
I did right out of college but had five years where it was really tough about ten years in. Then it blew up.
Posted by AUFANATL
Member since Dec 2007
3937 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 6:40 pm to
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I think a single person making 50k would struggle without roommates. We've just destroyed the value of the currency.


It's all relative.

The two biggest wild cards are debt and healthcare. If you are healthy and have no debt you can make 50k work outside of the top 20-30 most expensive cities. But how many people go through life without loans and serious doctor visits? And let's face it - in today's modern world, jumpstarting your life (building a career, developing a social network and dating someone you want to marry) often requires you to move to one of those expensive cities.
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
Member since Nov 2008
16200 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 6:49 pm to
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It's all relative.


That's very clear just in this thread.

We're definitely spoiled in the US thinking that you can't be comfortable unless you have a new car every few years, own a 3br house and put 15-20% of your income into savings and/or retirement.

There are plenty of people that live comfortably without that.
Posted by Willie Stroker
Member since Sep 2008
12996 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 6:49 pm to
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How Many of You Make Enough to "Live Comfortably "?

Sure, I made enough to retire comfortably.

I didn't blow money on toys like boats, off-road vehicles, or other expensive hobbies that require depreciating assets. And I didn't blow money on expensive vacations. Worked my arse off and invested aggressively.

Now I'm in my 50s with a 3,400 sq ft house in a very safe neighborhood. I have $0 debt and a hot wife. My biggest expenses are about $1500/m for auto and home insurance and property tax. I'm financially set for life.

If a dumbass like me can do it, anybody can.
Posted by real turf fan
East Tennessee
Member since Dec 2016
8732 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 6:53 pm to
We have always lived comfortably because we don't live wastefully.
We've never kept up with the Joneses because we don't follow what they do.
Somehow, we just don't envy people.
Posted by Billy Blanks
Member since Dec 2021
3815 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 6:53 pm to
I do but dang, then there's always "more." Get into wealth building instead of just getting by and it feels like it always did before.
Posted by elprez00
Hammond, LA
Member since Sep 2011
29439 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 6:54 pm to
I’d be a millionaire if I could curtail my wife’s Amazon shopping habit.
Posted by WonPercent
BATON ROUGE
Member since Aug 2023
490 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 6:56 pm to
"WonPercent"

Yeah, checks out bro.
Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
Member since Nov 2006
99296 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 6:59 pm to
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Do you really think it takes over $80k for a single person to "live comfortably" in Louisiana.


Single person? Yes.

Married with two kids under 18? No.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Member since Feb 2008
18758 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 7:01 pm to
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I have a great job. I make very good money. I have outstanding credit but I lack companionship. I am 56 years old and I really don’t want to live alone.



Are you overly selective? I ask because I’m 54, divorced and fall into women. I’m not looking but end up dating more than I want. They aren’t OT 10s but are solid 7s.


There are easy women around if you look.
Posted by Ostrich
Alexandria, VA
Member since Nov 2011
8781 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 7:01 pm to
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I live comfortably but I am a single man with zero dependents. I am also upset that I cannot attract a beautiful woman.

I have a great job. I make very good money. I have outstanding credit but I lack companionship. I am 56 years old and I really don’t want to live alone. I thought about suicide . It would break my family’s world if I died though.


Doesn't sound like you're living comfortably. Hope you seek help and find peace.
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
29684 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 7:03 pm to
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I'm about ready to share costs at this point. Will take the best serious offer.
What?

I thought you were happily married to an Asian chick.
Posted by Wildcat98USA
Member since Nov 2023
165 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 7:04 pm to
If you’re this guy…same age…



Go easy on yourself. You’ve done more in your life than almost of all us.
Posted by ManWithNoNsme
Member since Feb 2022
445 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 7:08 pm to
Be happy you can’t attract a woman. You won’t be retiring. Get a dog instead.
Posted by real turf fan
East Tennessee
Member since Dec 2016
8732 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 7:08 pm to
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I drive an old paid-for truck, buy clothes at Sam's Club, and don't eat out much.
A sure fire recipe to make a woman someone else’s woman (especially point #3).


Do you want a woman who wastes money on eating out all the time? If you searched out single women shopping at Sam's or Aldi's for grocery basics, and if you exchanged recipes, you'd be on your way to finding a keeper.

Now if you're looking for the next generation of Sex and the CIty broads, you may never be able to afford them : mentally or monetarily.

Ask friends whose values you share if they know anyone.
Posted by lsusa
Doing Missionary work for LSU
Member since Oct 2005
4656 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 7:15 pm to
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I live pretty good. I know people that make as much as I do and are paycheck to paycheck. Crazy arse car payments , Spend outrageous money on fishing and hunting gear. Eat out everyday , Zero idea how to grocery shop. People do it to themselves.


You and others have hit the nail on the head. The issue is in many ways as much about spending priorities and self-control as it is one of income.

Of course, we also live in a society where we are indoctrinated daily into being consumers in ways that our grandparents weren’t.

Maybe this doesn’t exemplify the situation the best, but 15 years ago when I started a new job we had a “coffee club”. The old guy in his 60s who ran it charged $5 per month. Never had any problems. But after he and some of the older workers retired and were replaced by 20-somethings who spent $5-7 daily on mocha-fropa-vente-sloppy-yada-yada-chinos at Starbucks, the whole thing went away.

Because a simple cup of coffee wasn’t enough.

Posted by Higgysmalls
Ft Lauderdale
Member since Jun 2016
6476 posts
Posted on 4/20/24 at 7:16 pm to
Soon as my 3 kids get out of private school I will live like a king
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