re: Found out today I’ve got Prostate cancer. Advice on radiation or surgery?

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I don't know, seems like overkill man. I think any guy 35 or older knows people who've gone through prostate cancer treatment.

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I know a lot of people who have lost a lot of weight, myself included. Guess what? I’m not a dietitian or personal trainer. I don’t know what medical conditions they have. It’s one thing to say eat well and exercise, but another to provide someone a specific diet or workout program and you know nothing about them. What if someone wants a good diet, you include peanuts, and they happen to have an allergic reaction? What if you give them a workout program and they rip a tendon and injure themselves? People are being way, way too specific for this.

Here’s the advice: go to your doctor and another doctor and get a second opinion. If you want a coping group for cancer, fine, this place is for you, but to be told which medical procedure to get by Cleavon who has a 78 IQ who also happened to have prostate cancer, you’re an idiot.

My dad had it 12 yrs ago. He had the surgery.

Honest to god we barely remember going through it and never talk about it bc it was a blip on his life.

You’re gonna be just fine man!!

Stepdad did the surgery and cancer-free. You’ve got this!

I don't think he's wrong about the importance of seeking pro advice but

A) there is no evidence OP isn't doing that and

B) everyone who goes through any fairly common medical condition is going to ask people about how it went, pros and cons, weird pains, surprising side effects, whatever.

I mean, if my doctors tell me they recommend surgery but radiation is a viable option too, I'm STILL going to go ask about it. Why wouldn't you?

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BowDownToLSU

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listen here you son of a bitch you kick this things arse

My dad had the radiation seeds placed, cured him cancer free..

Mayo clinic

I believe Willis Knighton in Shreveport has proton treatment

I had the radiation seeds placed, and then 32 weeks, 20 minutes a day, of radiation therapy. Literally zero side effects, none, from the radiation. You walk in, drop your pants, get on the table, the scan lasts 20 minutes or so. The only "issue" is you need to drink 40+ oz of water before, then hold it till the bladder is scanned. They need a full bladder to push away from the gland, leaving the gland as the target. So, not peeing on yourself is the only issue. As for surgery, no surgery will remove 100% of the cancer cells in the gland area. However, those cells are microscopic & would take yrs & yrs to develop into anything significant. Same with radiation, no 100% destroying of the cancer cells. As noted, a positive if you decide on surgery, if you have the surgery first, and cancer returns, you can then try the radiation. If you go radiation first, surgery is not an option if cancer returns. My PSA # was 11 three yrs ago. After 32 weeks of radiation, it is now 0.15. A range from 0 to 4 is considered normal. Next OV is next yr. My choice against the surgery was I did not want to mess with a catheter for a couple of weeks post surgery. And there are some sexual dysfunction possibilities: at 71, not a problem for me. You have a 6 week recovery period, post surgery. I went out celebrating the evening I had my last treatment. But prostate cancer is "the best" cancer to get, as the recovery rate is in the high 80 percentile. Mary Bird Perkins was great for me. Really great. Keep your chin up...prostate cancer is not a death knell, far from it.

Regardless of what your urologist tells you, get a second opinion from a respected institution... or any institution for that matter. "I like my guy and he seems like he knows what he's talking about" isn't good enough.

They won't be offended.

And if you're getting surgery, research your surgeon. My ex is in sales for Medtronic so she is in surgery all the time. She would say how she called on a bunch of docs at major institutions she wouldn't let touch her or anyone she knew.

Listen - I don’t know what your Gleason Score is nor your Biopsy results, but mine was a PSA rising fast around a 7.1. I was 50.
I went straight to MDA, they know their crap. Like big time. They scheduled me to have it removed laparoscopically, took it out, I pee fine, don’t pee on myself, sex is normal, ( I have to use Ciallis) but otherwise completely normal.
A friend somewhat older had it, went locally, and has had nothing but problems and is now wishing he had gone to MDA.
Up to you, but for me- I went to the best of the best.
My Dr. over there TEACHES other doctors how to do this procedure. Good luck.